So wrong but so funny!
Age 35, Male
Student
Lancaster Highschool
Lancaster TX
Joined on 7/22/07
Posted by TheBoyOfAges - December 7th, 2007
2 days after the annaversery of me saying "I love you" to my ex. My best friend told me when they where chating on MSN he asked her if she missed me, and she said yes she did. Just yesterday I was forced into a chat room with her, and we talked a bit about nothing. It didn't seem like she cared, but when she had to go she asked me to re-add her to my friends list. Months after she broke up with me shes asking to talk to me again. Should I really try this again?
Her pic right here.
Tell her to leave you alone because she is fugly!
"Just yesterday I was forced into a chat room..."
lol, guys in ski masks duct taped your hands and demanded you to log on to messenger with a glock in your mouth. Al Queda's must be getting bored.
LivinInTheSunlight says:
"Honestly, you shouldn't have left a pic. Most people are too shallow to care about depth of character...they will let their girl be stupid, a jackass, and shred their fucking wallet apart so long as they get a nice fuck. If she is loving, caring, kind...thoughtful, funny...whatever you look for in a girl. If she is THAT, and you think it's worth it, then OF COURSE, go for it."
Kids that age don't even know what their dick is for. But he makes a good point.
Despite being the cyclone of emotion we all know women are, when it comes to matters of this nature- rekindling- they only ever let show about 1% of their true intentions. They fear rejection like the AIDS virus and therefore take it slow, hoping that they will not have to be the one to take the initiative. As any man should know, women almost never make the first move.
On the other hand, she may (Cliché allert) just want to be friends. It can take a chick forever to get over a relationship and in the infinite mystery that is the female mind this somehow is part of the process. Otherwise she's begun to remind herself of what she is missing and is wanting it back. It's as predictable as the tide or a Steven Seagal movie.
Go for it. Second chances come VERY rarely in life.
Consider whatever you had between the two of you before to be a learning experience. Think about what mistakes you both made and improve upon them. There's an old Japanese proverb that says failure is the opportunity to begin again, only this time more wisely. Even more pertinent, Alfred the Butler said the reason why we fall is to pick ourselves back up again.
Are you going to argue with the guy who raised Batman?
Besides, look at that picture. Sweet Jesus on a rubber crutch...
If it doesn't work out again, so what? You're 18. You've still got plenty of opportunities and a liver healthy enough to withstand the post break-up drinking.
Now get back on that horse and ride like you fucking stole it.
Sadly im one of those boys that are so oblivios of others that the girl has to make the first move. I have considered the idea that she may want to be friends, but after all the months of her not talking to me; then her just out of the blue comming back. Last time when she called me; we talked about our old realationship, and how she loved how I was with her. The "Forgiving and sweet" side of me she almost always fell for. Even before when she was in another realationship with some guy. She called me and convinced me to talk dirty to her! I felt very "very" weird after that. I just want a small clue if her intention is to lure me out to make the move, shes just waiting for the right time for herself to make it, or its just a friendship.
LivinInTheSunlight
Honestly, you shouldn't have left a pic. Most people are too shallow to care about depth of character...they will let their girl be stupid, a jackass, and shred their fucking wallet apart so long as they get a nice fuck.
If she is loving, caring, kind...thoughtful, funny...whatever you look for in a girl. If she is THAT, and you think it's worth it, then OF COURSE, go for it.